Eating on trains?
Just food for thought.
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Just food for thought.
Lim Hwee Hua hopes for 30% of MPs to be women, one day
Oh...So, Lim Hwee Hwa wants more women in politics!
If i didn't hear it wrongly, i also heard PM lee hsien loong backing MP Lim, also hoping for more women in politics.
When i first heard it, i was like this
WTF?
Be patient, i'm gonna explain why.
The first thought that came to my mind was that women in politics...hmm. What's the opportunity cost? Them pursing a highly demanding career that has often been seen as men's job? What does it mean? Does it mean giving up your 'family career'??
Let's start with Mrs Lim Hwee Hua herself. I think she's an excellent example. She is an outstanding minster herself; she's a minister in Prime Minister's Office and Second Minister for Finance and Second Minister for Transport. Most importantly, what impressed me most was that she has a son and two daughters. Totally a role model. Totally the kinds of women Singapore are looking for.
I was quick to mutter to myself...WTF, doesn't women in politics mean more career minded women? Singapore is already facing a damn low fertility rate and by the year 2065, 1 in 2 Singaporeans will not have a descendant. So what's happening? If they want women to take part in an active role in politics, or to hold major leadership positions, wouldn't that mean that there'll be lesser mothers out there, or that women choose to give birth only to ONE CHILD because of the heavy career commitment out there? Wouldn't it affect our workforce in the long run? Or does it mean we need more migrants + women in politics? I know we chinese are migrants ourselves and that the malays must hate us decades ago. But look at us, aren't we living harmoniously now? I totally have nothing against women leaders you know, but it just made me think more. How is Singapore going to manage its limited manpower in the next decade or so. What is the emphasis for us now? I don't think the baby bonus helps a lot. What is a $3000 cash bonus when a woman can earn $10000 a month. Getting laid off(of course the govt tells companies to take a proper stance against pregnant mothers) is priceless compared with the $3000 bonus. And the dollar for dollar thing.
So what's the main point. More babies, yet working mothers. High flying mothers.
HEY, NOW WE MEN MUST TAKE CARE OF THE BABIES!
I'm not complaining. But since there's a shift in the expectations of women, wouldn't that mean today's dad would play a different role too? Women are now equally capable of being the breadwinner. Women of today will demand that the father breastfeed pay more attention to roles women used to play! Hey that's me! The babies can't be neglected. They are our future leaders.
So why didn't Lee Hsien Loong say something like... WE WANT TO SEE MORE DADS SPENDING TIME AT HOME TAKING CARE OF THE BABIES. OR IN SOME CASES THE DAD BEING THE NEW MUM, THE MUM BEING THE NEW DAD. In a traditional and conservative society, where norms are more accepted than otherwise, i feel that I will be totally weirded out and feel "ashamed" if Harng-Yi, the author here, becomes the new mum. I am still the traditional old ah pek who believes that i should work. Of course, i don't mind taking up 50% of the baby chore duties. 51% of me would be too much. I have this inner male ego in me i think. I just don't wanna feel useless you see. If i don't bring the bread home, i will feel like i've let my family down.
The inspiration of this post came as i was sitting on the bus. A young man sitting beside me offered his seat to his female friend. Then i thought...women....seat...
PARLIAMENT!
Neh not really, but i'm gonna start on another story.
Why should males give up seats to the female. Are the females any much weaker in carrying their own weight? Or is it just a tactic to win the pretty girl over? I would understand if it's the latter but the former!
Wth!
If women keep insisting that they want their rights, then do something about it!
For instance, when i'm standing, offer your seats to me! Am i any much weaker in carrying my own weight? Or is it a tactic to win me over? I would understand if it's the latter HAHA!
2100 SQ 227 Melbourne.
Sleeping? Don't pretend! Give up your seats to the needy!
I let it all out but i achieved nothing.
Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism; the way you play it is free will.
This house belives that the inclusion of Project Work in the A Levels syllabus should be discussed.
Seriously ah, gary neville should stop playing for Manutd. Because everytime he plays Central Defence, utd will leak some stupid goal. Look at his command in the Aston Villa game. Had to be moved to the side in the second half.
Met up with the senior softballers today. Must say, i do miss the times. Times when we used to always LAN after trainings. I bet that was what motivated them to come down for training HAHA.
So i'm working as a part time surveyor now.
What the tooT....
Phy D/E